Woman: Man's Equal by Thomas Webster
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CHAPTER III. Later Estimate of Woman. In the discussion of the position occupied by women as wives, those only have been spoken of who were betrothed in infancy, or were captured, stolen, or bought. These latter were, without further ceremony, merely _taken_ home to the abode of their future husband and lord. In the later periods of antiquity, betrothal terminated in a marriage ceremony, the rite varying according to the prevailing customs of each nation. Opinions with regard to the qualifications which ought to be possessed by a woman to fit her for marriage--which were, in fact, considered indispensable--were as various as the nations or the rites; and, truth to tell, are about as conflicting now as they were centuries ago. In all the ages, and in every country, one thing seemed to be agreed upon, however, and sedulously kept in view; namely, _woman's inferiority_. Let her be free-born or a slave, to be married or bought, she must still be a bondwoman--a creature subject to guardianship. After men began to desire wives who were not altogether drudges, women began to be esteemed in proportion to their beauty, not their wisdom or good judgment. A fine figure, delicate hands, and handsome face, with fascinating manners, a graceful carriage, and such accomplishments as were the fashion, quite regardless of the accomplishments of head or |
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