A Woman of the World - Her Counsel to Other People's Sons and Daughters by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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you could not make a good school-teacher, to attempt it. I hurt your
pride a bit, and you were determined to prove me wrong. Had you been self-depreciating and oversensitive, what I said would have turned you from that field of effort. And that would have been a desirable result, since one who can be turned from any undertaking _ought to be_. I still think the world has lost a wonderful artist by your not entering the lists of designers and dressmakers. But since my recital of the faults which would prevent your success as a teacher led you to overcome them, I am proud and glad, that you have gone on in the work you contemplated. Good teachers are more needed than good dressmakers. And you are sweet and charming as usual, to tell me that your popularity with children and parents, is greatly due to that letter of mine. What you write me of the young girl who is making you so much trouble by her jealousy of all other pupils, interests and saddens me. Her devotion to you is of that morbid type, so unwholesome and so dangerous to her peace, and the peace of all her associates. It is a misfortune that mothers do not take such traits in early babyhood, and eradicate them by patient, practical methods. Instead, this mother, like many others, seems to think her little girl should be favoured and flattered because of her morbid tendency. She mistakes selfishness, envy, greediness, and hysteria for a loving nature. I can imagine your feelings when this mother told you with a proud smile, "Allie always wants the whole attention of any one she loves, and |
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