A Woman of the World - Her Counsel to Other People's Sons and Daughters by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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letter, for the amount which would carry you through college.
Yet when you had finished your course, you would find so many things you wanted to do, and must do, the debt would become too heavy to lift, save by borrowing from some one else. If not that, then you would impose upon the fact of our relationship, and on your belief that I had plenty of means without the amount you owed me: and so you would join the great army of good-for-nothings in the world. There is one thing you must always remember: No matter how close the blood tie between two beings, even twins, each soul comes into the world alone, and with a separate life destiny to work out. If I have worked out my destiny to financial independence, that does not entitle you to a share of it. If it seems best for me to aid you, it is not because a blood tie makes it a duty. I grow to believe there is a sort of curse on money which is not earned, even when it is bestowed by father, on son or daughter. It cripples individual development. Only when money is earned is it blest. Regarding your future profession, I cannot agree with your idea that because you feel no particular love for any one calling, and have a halfway tendency toward several, that you will never be a success. Great geniuses are often consumed with a passion for some one line of study or |
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