A Woman of the World - Her Counsel to Other People's Sons and Daughters by Ella Wheeler Wilcox
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But were I given the choice to-day to be what you are, or what your
sister is, and what thousands of children born of loveless marriages are, I would not for one second hesitate in my choice. The world needs marriage laws to keep any order in society. The wisely reared and well-balanced woman will keep herself in womanly reserve for her legal husband. Your mother, by a moment's weakness and loss of self-control, left a blight upon her life for ever, and a shadow upon yours. But do not for one instant think of yourself as anything but _a child of God_, endowed with all the wealth of the spiritual kingdom, whatever the law may withhold from you here. You are legitimized by love, your sister is legitimate by law. She is illegitimate in the sight of heaven, you in sight of earth. Be glad of your beautiful nature and beautiful qualities, and do not spoil them by despondency or pessimism. Think of yourself as if you were a child of Adam and Eve, born before the serpent appeared, when there was no law but the law of love to govern two souls, drawn together by irresistible attraction. The best and highest qualities of two human beings meet and mingle in your nature. Do you suppose the great Creator of all things regards you as base born, when he has so endowed you with all that makes woman lovable and charming. |
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