Routledge's Manual of Etiquette by George Routledge
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be within your power, you have probably the _entrée_ to some private
collections, clubhouses, theatres, or reading-rooms, and could devote a few hours to showing him these places. If you are but a clerk in a bank, remember that only to go over the Bank of England would be interesting to a foreigner or provincial visitor. In short, etiquette demands that you shall exert yourself to show kindness to the stranger, if only out of compliment to the friend who introduced him to you. If you invite him to dine with you, it is a better compliment to ask some others to meet him, than to dine with him _tête-à-tête_. You are thereby giving him an opportunity of making other acquaintances, and are assisting your friend in still further promoting the purpose for which he gave him the introduction to yourself. Be careful at the same time only to ask such persons as he will feel are at least his own social equals. A letter of introduction should be given unsealed, not alone because your friend may wish to know what you have said of him, but also as a guarantee of your own good faith. As you should never give such a letter unless you can speak highly of the bearer, this rule of etiquette is easy to observe. By requesting your friend to fasten the envelope before forwarding the letter to its destination, you tacitly give him permission to inspect its contents. Let your note paper be of the best quality and the proper size. Albert or Queen's size is the best for these purposes. It has been well said that "attention to the punctilios of politeness |
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