Routledge's Manual of Etiquette by George Routledge
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should have become animated, beware of letting your call exceed
half-an-hour's length. It is always better to let your friends regret than desire your withdrawal. On returning visits of ceremony you may, without impoliteness, leave your card at the door without going in. Do not fail, however, to inquire if the family be well. Should there be daughters or sisters residing with the lady upon whom you call, you may turn down a corner of your card, to signify that the visit is paid to all. It is in better taste, however, to leave cards for each. Unless when returning thanks for "kind inquiries," or announcing your arrival in, or departure from, town, it is not considered respectful to send round cards by a servant. Leave-taking cards have P.P.C. _(pour prendre congé)_ written in the corner. Some use P.D.A. _(pour dire adieu)_. It is not the fashion on the Continent for gentlemen to affix _Monsieur_ to their cards, _Jules Achard_, or _Paolo Beni_, looks more simple and elegant than if preceded by _Monsieur_, or _Monsieur le Comte_. Some English gentlemen have adopted this good custom, and it would be well if it became general. Autographic facsimiles for visiting cards are affectations in any persons but those who are personally remarkable for talent and whose autographs, or facsimiles of them, would be prized as curiosities. A card bearing the autographic signature of Charles Dickens or George |
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