Common Sense, How to Exercise It by Mme. Blanchard Yoritomo-Tashi
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to face, he forced himself to appeal to that quality, which in revealing
to him the artifice of the sentiment which animated him, cured him of false sensibility, which he had displayed up to that time." Sentimentality is in reality only a conception of egotism, under the different forms which it adopts. Yoritomo proves it to us again, in speaking of the weakness of certain teachers, who, under the pretext of avoiding trouble, allow their children to follow their defective inclinations. "It is by an instinctive hatred of effort that parents forbid themselves to make their children cry when reprimanding them," said he. "If the parents wish to be sincere to themselves, they will perceive that the sorrow in seeing their children's tears flow, plays a very small part in their preconceived idea of indulgence. "It is in order to economize their own nervous energy or to avoid cleverly the trouble of continued teaching, that they hesitate to provoke these imaginary miseries, the manifestation of which is caused by the great weakness of the teachers. "Common sense, nevertheless, ought to make them understand that it is preferable to allow the little ones to shed a few tears, which are quickly dried, rather than to tolerate a deplorable propensity for these habits which, later in life, will cause them real anxiety." And the philosopher concludes: |
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