Notes and Queries, Number 48, September 28, 1850 by Various
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(Vol. ii., p. 151.)
Your correspondent J.M.G. has brought forward a curious subject, and one well deserving attention and illustration. A fair is said to have been held at the meeting of the Black and White Esks, at the foot of Eskdalemuir, in Dumfriesshire, when the singular custom of _Handfasting_ was observed. The old statistical account of the parish says: "At that fair it was the custom for unmarried persons of both sexes to choose a companion according to their liking, whom they were to live with till _that time next year_. This was called _handfasting_, or hand-in-fist. If they were pleased with each other at that time, then they continued together for life; if not, they separated, and were free to make another choice as at the first." John Maxwell, Esq., of Broomholm, in a letter (dated April 15th, 1796) to the Rev. Wm. Brown, D.D., of Eskdalemuir, says, in reference to this custom: "No account can be given of the period at which the custom of _handfasting_ commenced; but I was told by an old man, John Murray, who died at the farm of Irvine (as you go from Langholm to Canobie), and had formerly been a proprietor in Eskdaldemuir, that he was acquainted with, or at least had seen an old man, I think his name was Beattie, who was grandson to a couple who had been handfasted. You perhaps know that _the children born under the handfasting engagement were reckoned lawful children, and not bastards_, though the parents did afterwards resile. This custom of handfasting does not seem to have been peculiar to |
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