Study of Child Life by Marion Foster Washburne
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LYING All lies are not bad, nor all liars immoral. A young child who cannot yet understand the obligations of truthfulness cannot be held morally accountable for his departure from truth. Lying is of three kinds. (1.) _The imaginative lie._ (2.) _The evasive lie._ (3.) _The politic lie._ [Sidenote: Imaginative "Lying"] (1.) It is rather hard to call the imaginative lie a lie at all. It is so closely related to the creative instinct which makes the poet and novelist and which, common among the peasantry of a nation, is responsible for folk-lore and mythology, that it is rather an intellectual activity misdirected than a moral obliquity. Very imaginative children often do not know the difference between what they imagine and what they actually see. Their minds eye sees as vividly as their bodily eye; and therefore they even believe their own statements. Every attempt at contradiction only brings about a fresh assertion of the impossible, which to the child becomes more and more certain as he hears himself affirming its existence. Punishment is of no use at all in the attempt to regulate this exuberance. The child's large statements should be smiled at and |
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