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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 1 - The Evolution of Modesty; The Phenomena of Sexual Periodicity; Auto-Erotism by Havelock Ellis
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of the head and inability to meet the eye. It is a special case
of Lipps's psychic stasis or damming up (_psychische Stauung_),
always produced when the psychic activities are at the same time
drawn in two or more different directions. In shame there is
always something present in consciousness which conflicts with
the rest of the personality, and cannot be brought into harmony
with it, which cannot be brought, that is, into moral (not
logical) relationship with it. A young man in love with a girl is
ashamed when told that he is in love, because his reverence for
one whom he regards as a higher being cannot be brought into
relationship with his own lower personality. A child in the same
way feels shame in approaching a big, grown-up person, who seems
a higher sort of being. Sometimes, likewise, we feel shame in
approaching a stranger, for a new person tends to seem higher and
more interesting than ourselves. It is not so in approaching a
new natural phenomenon, because we do not compare it with
ourselves. Another kind of shame is seen when this mental contest
is lower than our personality, and on this account in conflict
with it, as when we are ashamed of sexual thoughts. Sexual ideas
tend to evoke shame, Hohenemser remarks, because they so easily
tend to pass into sexual feelings; when they do not so pass (as
in scientific discussions) they do not evoke shame.

It will be seen that this discussion of modesty is highly
generalized and abstracted; it deals simply with the formal
mechanism of the process. Hohenemser admits that fear is a form
of psychic stasis, and I have sought to show that modesty is a
complexus of fears. We may very well accept the conception of
psychic stasis at the outset. The analysis of modesty has still
to be carried very much further.
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