Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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"It is not good for man to be alone," says Holy Writ. It is certainly deplorable, for one who desires to make his way, to find himself without a prop, without a counselor, and without a guide. This is the case of those timid persons who do not understand how to make friends for themselves. Poise, on the other hand, invites sympathy. It aids men to expand. It creates friends when needed, and weaves the bonds of comradeship and of protection without which our social fabric could not hold together. Educators should seek for inspiration in the lessons that the exigencies of modern life offer to the view of the observer. Excessive modesty, sworn enemy of poise, is, socially speaking, a fault from which young minds should be carefully guarded. It is the open door to all the feeblenesses which interfere with the development of poise. It is a mistake that it has so long been considered as a virtue. In any case, the day of extreme humility is past. This detachment from oneself is contrary to all the laws of progress. It is opposed to all the principles of evolution and of growth which should be the study of all our contemporaries, whatever their station or the class to which they may happen to belong. No man has the right to withdraw himself from the battle and to shirk |
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