Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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No man who has poise will ever fall a victim to this misfortune.
He knows exactly what his capabilities are and he has no need to exaggerate his own abilities to impress his friends. Poise calls for action, when this becomes necessary; but the man of resolve, being always prepared to do what is needful, considers mere boasting and bravado as something quite unworthy of him. There are, however, certain extenuating circumstances in the cases of those timid people who take refuge in boasting. They are almost invariably the dupes of their own fancies, and for the moment really believe themselves to be capable of endeavors beset by difficulties, of the surmounting of which they understand nothing. Nothing looks easier to duplicate than certain movements which are performed with apparent ease by experts. Which of us has not been profoundly astonished at the enormous difficulty experienced in accomplishing some simple act of manual toil that we see performed without the least effort by a workman trained to this particular task? What looks easier, for instance, than to plane a piece of wood or to dig up the ground? Is it possible that the laborer, wheeling a barrow, really has to be possest of skill or strength? It hardly seems so. And yet the man who takes a plane in his hands for |
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