Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
page 36 of 127 (28%)
page 36 of 127 (28%)
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This morbid dread of becoming the subject of ridicule ends by creating a peculiar condition of mind of which, as we have already pointed out, egoism is the pivot. In this way it is a common occurrence to see people of timidity paying exaggerated attention to the slightest changes in the condition of their health. Such people by shutting themselves out from the world have reduced it to the circumference of their own personalities and everything which touches them necessarily assumes gigantic importance in their eyes. The slightest opposition becomes for them a catastrophe. The smallest unpleasantness presents itself to them in the light of a tragic misfortune. For this reason the lives of the timid become a succession of boredoms and of pains. Even in those cases where no really unfortunate incident occurs, these people so exaggerate what actually does happen to them that the least little emotion causes them the most profound unhappiness. On those days when nothing in particular happens they spend their time anticipating all sorts of disasters, including those which are not the least likely to happen. To them the tiniest cloud is an omen of a devastating storm. When the sun is shining their timidity prevents them from exposing |
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