Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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He knows how to arrange his arguments, and to foresee those of his
adversary, and, if he finds himself face to face with a statement which he can not refute, he will seek some means of softening the defeat or of changing the ground of the debate in such a way as to avoid confusion to himself. In any event, such an occurrence will have no profound effect upon him. Vanquished on one point, he will find the presence of mind to at once change the character of the discussion to questions which are at once familiar and favorable to him. He who goes forth into life armed with poise has also the marked advantage over the timid that comes from superior health. This phrase should not be the occasion for a smile. Timidity is a chronic cause of poor health in those who suffer from it. Pushed to extremes, it is the source of a thousand nervous defects. We have already touched upon stammering. Unreasonable blushing is another misfortune of the timid. In drawing the attention of one's opponents it betrays at once one's ideas and one's fears. Fear of this uncomfortable blushing inhibits many people from making the most of themselves or from properly protecting their own interests. The shame they feel on account of this inferiority leads them, as we have seen, to seek isolation in which hypochondria slowly grows upon |
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