Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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The timid see only the latter when making the decisions that fate imposes upon them. They fall into despair at their inability to see the other side of things and their feeble will drives against solid obstacles like a car colliding with a block of granite. The man of resolution, instead of yielding to despair, seeks to surmount such a difficulty by turning his car in another direction; but, if the new road shows him nothing but dangerous pitfalls, he will choose to go around the block and continue his journey, remembering it as a landmark for his return. For this reason we shall find him well on his way toward his journey's end while the victim of timidity continues to exhaust himself by vain efforts, thankful enough if he is not permanently mired in some of the bogs into which he has imprudently ventured. This is a state of affairs of much more frequent occurrence than one might suppose. Timidity, as we have seen, often unites the boldest conceptions with complete inexperience, which does not permit of accurate judgment as to impossibilities. This lack of knowledge of life is also the cause of a continual fear of making mistakes. The man of resolution never suffers from this complaint. Having taught himself the value of a ripened judgment, he is quick to recognize the advantage to be derived from any project. He weighs |
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