Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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foolhardy person who has ventured into it.
The principle upon which we must start is this: life is a battle in which strategy always has the advantage over blind courage. Unfortunate is he who, by his boasting or his lack of generalship, decides upon an attack for which he is not really prepared. However brave he may be he will infallibly find himself vanquished in a struggle in which everything has combined in advance to defeat him. Boasting is not courage. Still less is it poise. Poise is a power derived from the mastery of self. It inhibits all outward manifestations that are likely to result in giving information to strangers with regard to our real feelings. Braggarts can not avoid this stumbling-block. They know nothing of the delights of contemplation, from which arise ripe resolutions that will be steadfastly followed. With the noise of their boastings, with the shouting of their own braggart ineptitudes, they hypnotize themselves so thoroughly that they are quite unable to hear the counsel that sane wisdom whispers in their ears. They are like the man in the eastern fable who was quite unable to follow a beaten path and was constantly wandering across the fields of his neighbors. These detours were in general much longer than the direct road would |
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