Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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fired with a single idea, the consciousness of his own agility and
strength. "By this means he, alone of the three, was able to cross the gulf in which his two companions had perished." Effrontery and boastfulness have often another source. The shyness of those who suffer from timidity, by isolating them and denying them the means of expansion, prevents them from obtaining a real control over their feelings, which undergo a process of deterioration so slow that they do not notice it. There are very few things to which we can not easily become accustomed, to the extent of a complete failure to notice their peculiarities, if their strangeness is only unfolded to us gradually. A thousand things which shock us at the first blush take on the guise of every-day matters when once we have acquired the habit of familiarity with them. The timid man, who will not openly acknowledge his feelings, is practically unable to take cognizance of their gradual transformation. We may add that he is always prone to dream, and peoples his world involuntarily with imaginary utopias, which he begins by considering as desirable, then as possible, and finally as actually existing. This is the starting-point of boastfulness. It partakes at once of falsity and of sincerity. The timid man loves to feel himself important, and he merely pities the people whom he considers incapable of |
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