Etiquette by Emily Post
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out of office, is merely "Mr." and not "Ex-president."
=THE PREVAILING INTRODUCTION AND INFLECTION= In the briefer form of introduction commonly used, "Mrs. Worldly, Mrs. Norman," if the two names are said in the same tone of voice it is not apparent who is introduced to whom; but by accentuating the more important person's name, it can be made as clear as though the words "May I present" had been used. The more important name is said with a slightly rising inflection, the secondary as a mere statement of fact. For instance, suppose you say, "Are you there?" and then "It is raining!" Use the same inflection exactly and say, "Mrs. Worldly?"--"Mrs. Younger!" Are you there?--It is raining! Mrs. Worldly?--Mrs. Younger! The unmarried lady is presented to the married one, unless the latter is very much the younger. As a matter of fact, in introducing two ladies to each other or one gentleman to another, no distinction is made. "Mrs. Smith; Mrs. Norman." "Mr. Brown; Mr. Green." The inflection is: I think--it's going to rain! |
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