Outwitting Our Nerves - A Primer of Psychotherapy by Josephine A. Jackson;Helen M. Salisbury
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other people. Each of us carries, within, subconscious pictures of the
people who surrounded us when we were children; and now when we meet a new person we are likely unconsciously to say to ourselves--not, "This person has eyebrows like my mother, or a voice like my nurse," or, "This person bosses me around as my father used to do," but, "This is my mother, this is my nurse, this is my father." Whereupon we may proceed to act toward that person very much as we did toward the original person in childhood. Transference is subconsciously identifying one person with another and behaving toward the one as if he were that other. Analysis has discovered that many a man's hostile attitude toward the state or religion or authority in general, is nothing more than this kind of displacement of his childhood's attitude toward authority in the person of his perhaps too-domineering father. Many a woman has married a husband, not for what he was in himself, but because she unconsciously identified him with her childish image of her father. Students of human nature have always recognized the kind of displacement which transfers the sense of guilt from some major act or attitude to a minor one which is more easily faced, just as _Lady Macbeth_ felt that by washing her hands she might free herself from her deeper stain. This is a frequent mechanism in the psychoneuroses--not that neurotics are likely to have committed any great crime, but that they feel subconsciously that some of their wishes or thoughts are wicked. =The Phenomena of Dissociation.= When an idea or a complex, a perception or a memory is either temporarily or permanently shoved out of consciousness into the subconscious, it is said to be dissociated. |
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