Broken Homes - A Study of Family Desertion and its Social Treatment by Joanna C. Colcord
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chance, however, that, until the man's death is established, he may turn
up unexpectedly. If living, he usually manages to hear now and again about his family and is often able to find them at will. A man who had neither seen nor communicated with his family during the ten years they had been maintained by a private family agency, nevertheless sent promptly for his wife and eldest son by a messenger who knew exactly where to find them (although they had moved in the interval several times), when he lay dying of alcoholic excess in the city hospital. The laws of many states contain a provision that the marriage of a person who has completely disappeared and not been heard from in a period of years can be set aside by the proper authorities. This makes legal the remarriage of the spouse. In nearly all of the states divorce can be obtained on the ground of long continued desertion.[27] The wisdom of advising such a divorce, however, should receive careful individual consideration, particularly in relation to the religious faith of the client and the attitude of that faith toward divorce. 3. Man's Whereabouts Known; Man Unwilling to Return or Support.--Many types of deserting men are included under this catch-all heading--the so-called "justifiable deserter;" the man who has fled to escape his creditors or is a fugitive from justice; the man who has elected to try life with another mate; the wandering hobo who means to come back some sweet day but not now; the cowardly pregnancy deserter; the low-grade irresponsible--a motley crew. They are grouped together here for convenience, since they constitute those with whom coercive measures have most often to be used. A good example of the "justifiable deserter" is found in the story of Williams.[28] This man, when home conditions became intolerable, |
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