The Secret of a Happy Home (1896) by Marion Harland
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of truth-speaking to her moral sense, and asked how she reconciled the
sin with her knowledge of what was right. Her answer was ready: "Oh, there's no sin in a lie that doesn't hurt yer neighbor!" Judged even by this easygoing principle, I should sin in penning the reference without which Katy intimates that she will not withdraw her foot from my house. She looms before me,--vulgar, determined, irrational and ignorant,--the impersonation of the System under which we cringe and groan. "What would you do?" I ask a friend, who is a successful housewife. She shrugs her shoulders. "Oh, swim with the tide! Not to give the certificate will be equivalent to boycotting yourself. The news of your contumacy will spread like prairie fires. You will be baited and banned beyond endurance." "But--my duty to my neighbor?" "Thanks to the prevailing rule in these affairs, your neighbor knows how little a written reference is worth. She will satisfy the proprieties by reading it, and form her own opinion of the girl. When Katy has worn out her saucepans and patience, your successor in misfortune will give her clean papers to the next place. It is a sort of endless chain of suffering. Then, there is the humane side of the question. A recommendation of some sort is a form most housewives |
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