A Jolly by Josh by "Josh"
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The obvious conclusion sounds almost like a platitude,--that it is not the
amount of money one has that increases one's happiness, but the use it is put to and the attitude of mind you have toward your income and the life you can lead with it. Let us now apply this to your particular case, and draw some more conclusions. _A priori_, you would be dissatisfied because you will be unable to do the things you have been accustomed to doing, and your attitude will be that of a man who has to deny himself things he thinks he wants. You will then cut down the rate of expenditure to within your income, as you have a certain modicum of sense in regard to matters of this kind,--not acquired, but inherited,--and permit yourself to spend freely up to your limits. Observe the result:-- When at the end of ten years you are married, you will find there is no increase in income, and you will have a lot of expensive tastes for things which you have come to look upon as necessary; and the increased expenses of a household will make you give up all sorts of personal comforts. This will make you feel poor, much poorer than Harris, for instance. As your children appear, they will in turn rob you of more of the things you have been accustomed to. You will have to keep a family horse and a pony, and give up trotters and boats. I am not detailing these tragedies with the idea of painting a gloomy future, but merely to illustrate a point of view,--a habit of mind. I might say. It becomes evident, then, that, in order to bring your mind to the point |
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