Mrs Whittelsey's Magazine for Mothers and Daughters - Volume 3 by Various
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Original. CHINESE DAUGHTERS. _Chánghái, Aug. 15th, 1851._ MY DEAR MRS. WHITTELSEY: In order to keep before my own mind a deep interest for this people, and to awaken corresponding sympathies in my native land, I make short monthly memorandums of my observations among the Chinese. They are indeed a singular people, with manners and customs peculiar to themselves; and it would seem that, in domestic life, every practice was the opposite of our own; but in the kindly feelings of our nature, those whom I have seen brought under the influence of Christian cultivation, are as susceptible as those of any nation on earth. At first they are exceedingly suspicious of you,--they do not, they _cannot_ understand your motives in your efforts to do them good; and it is not until by making one's actions consistent with our words, and by close observation on their part, that you enjoy their confidence. Since I last wrote I have been quite indisposed. During my husband's absence in committee my nurses were Chinese girls, one eleven, the other thirteen years of age. No mother who had bestowed the greatest care and cultivation upon her daughters, could have had more affectionate attention than I had from these late heathen girls,--they were indeed unto me as daughters,--every want was anticipated, and every thing that young, affectionate hearts could suggest, was done to alleviate my pain. |
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