Mrs Whittelsey's Magazine for Mothers and Daughters - Volume 3 by Various
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the nouns and the conjugation of the verbs as well as other boys of his
age; but his seat-mate very kindly volunteered to 'tell him in class,' and what was the use in _opening the gate_ into the Latin language, when another would do it for him? Oh, no! John Easy had no idea of tasking mental or physical strength when he could avoid it, and the consequence was, that numerous gates remained closed to him all the days of his life--_gates of honor_--_gates to riches_--_gates to happiness_. Children ought to be early taught that it is always best to help themselves." This is the true secret of making a man. What would Columbus, or Washington and Franklin, or Webster and Clay, have accomplished had they proceeded on the principle of John Easy? No youth can rationally hope to attain to eminence in any thing who is not ready to "open the gate" for _himself_. And then, poor Mrs. Easy, how _she_ did misjudge! Better for her son, had she dismissed her servants--or rather had she directed them to some more appropriate service, and let Master John have remained at the gate day and night for a month, unless willing, before the expiration of that time, to have opened it for himself, and by his own strength. Parents in their well-meant kindness, or, perhaps, it were better named, thoughtless indulgence, often repress energies which, if their children were compelled to put forth, would result in benefits of the most important character. It is, indeed, painful to see boys, as we sometimes see them, struggling against "wind and tide;" but watch such boys--follow them--see how they put forth strength as it accumulates--apply energies as they increase--make use of new expedients as they need them, and by-and-by where are they? Indeed, now and then they are obliged to lift at the gate pretty lustily to get it open; now and then they are obliged to |
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