he will be very glad for you to stay as long as you please. That
his son has a commodious house just opposite his, unoccupied, partially
furnished; that you could, if you prefer, take that, bring up servants
and what you desire, and remain there as independent as at home....
I must now leave the matter to you, and pray that God may guard you.
I have no time for more. I know and feel the discomfort of your
position, but it cannot be helped, and we must bear our trials like
Christians.... If you and Cousin Anna choose to come here, you know
how happy we shall be to see you. I shall take the field as soon
now as I can....

"Ever yours truly and devotedly,
"R. E. Lee"

Three days later he was at Manassas, only a short distance from
Ravensworth, and he sent her this short note:

"Manassas, May 28, 1861.

"I reached here, dearest Mary, this afternoon. I am very much occupied
in examining matters, and have to go out to look over the ground.
Cousin John tempts me strongly to go down, but I never visit for
many reasons. If for no other, to prevent compromising the house,
for my visit would certainly be known.

"I have written to you fully and to Cousin Anna. I am decidedly of
the opinion that it would be better for you to leave, on your account
and Cousin Anna's. My only objection is the leaving of Cousin Anna
alone, if she will not go with you. If you prefer Richmond, go with
Nannie. Otherwise, go to the upper country, as John indicates. I