Home Scenes and Home Influence; a series of tales and sketches by T. S. (Timothy Shay) Arthur
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reprove that wife with a look that called the tears to her eyes. She
was wrong, but he was wrong in a greater degree. The over-tried wife needed her husband's sustaining patience, and gently spoken counsel, not his cold reproof. Husbands, as far as my observation gives me the ability to judge, have far less consideration for, and patience with their wives, than they are entitled to receive. If any should know best the wife's trials, sufferings, and incessant exhausting duties, it is the husband, and he, of all others, should be the last to censure, if, from very prostration of body and mind, she be sometimes betrayed into hasty words, that generally do more harm among children and domestics than total silence in regard to what is wrong. But this is a digression. One day, I called to see Mrs. Martinet, and found her in a very disturbed state of mind. "I am almost worried to death, Kate!" she said, soon after I came in. "You look unhappy," I returned. "What has happened?" "What is always happening," she replied. "Scarcely a day passes over my head that my patience is not tried to the utmost. I must let every body in the house do just as he or she likes, or else there is a disturbance. I am not allowed to speak out my own mind, without some one's being offended." "It is a great trial, as well as responsibility to have the charge |
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