The Whole Family: a Novel by Twelve Authors by William Dean Howells;Mary Eleanor Wilkins Freeman;Mary Heaton Vorse;Mary Stewart Doubleday Cutting;Elizabeth Garver Jordan;John Kendrick Bangs;Henry James;Elizabet Phelps
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"I don't wonder at that. I wish you'd draw yourself out. I've thought
something in the direction of your opinion myself." "Have you? That's good! We'll tackle the doctor together sometime. The difficulty about putting a thing like that in practice is that you have to co-operate in it with women who have been brought up in the old way. A man's wife is a woman--" "Generally," I assented, as if for argument's sake. He gave himself time to laugh. "And she has the charge of the children as long as they're young, and she's a good deal more likely to bring up the boys like girls than the girls like boys. But the boys take themselves out of her hands pretty soon, while the girls have to stay under her thumb till they come out just the kind of women we've always had." "We've managed to worry along with them." "Yes, we have. And I don't say but what we fancy them as they are when we first begin to 'take notice.' One trouble is that children are sick so much, and their mothers scare you with that, and you haven't the courage to put your theories into practice. I can't say that any of my girls have inherited my constitution but this one." I knew he meant the one whose engagement was the origin of our conversation. "If you've heard my mother-in-law talk about her constitution you would think she belonged to the healthiest family that ever got out of New England alive, but the fact is there's always something the matter with her, or she thinks there is, and she's taking medicine for it, anyway. I can't say but what my wife has always been strong enough, and I've been |
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