The first audience given by Her Imperial Majesty to the seven
ladies of the Diplomatic Corps was sought and urged by the
foreign ministers. After the troubles of 1900 and the return of
the court, Her Majesty assumed a different attitude, and, of her
own accord, issued many invitations for audiences, and these
invitations were accepted. Then followed my tiffin to the court
princesses and their tiffin in return. This opened the way for
other princesses and wives of high officials to call, receive
calls, to entertain and be entertained. In many cases
arrangements were made through our mutual friend Mrs. Headland,
an accepted physician and beloved friend of many of the higher
Chinese families; and through her innate tact, broad thought, and
great love for the good she may do, I have been able to come into
personal touch with many of these Chinese ladies.
--Mrs. E. H. Conger in "Letters from China.


VII

THE EMPRESS DOWAGER-AS A WOMAN

Although the great Dowager has passed away, it may be interesting
to know something about her life and character as a woman as
those saw her who came in contact with her in public and private
audiences. In order to appreciate how quick she was to adopt
foreign customs, let me give in some detail the difference in her
table decorations at the earlier and later audiences as they have
been related by my wife.