The Laws of Etiquette by A Gentleman
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page 39 of 88 (44%)
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find any one to announce you, you knock very lightly at the
door, and wait some time before entering. If you are in too great a hurry, you might find the person drawing off a night- cap. Respectable visitors should be received and treated with the utmost courtesy. But if a tiresome fellow, after wearying all his friends, becomes weary of himself, and arrives to bestow his tediousness upon you, pull out your watch with restlessness, talk about your great occupations and the value of time. Politeness is one thing; to be made a convenience of is another. The style of your conversation should always be in keeping with the character of the visit. You must not talk about literature in a visit of condolence, nor about political economy in a visit of ceremony. When a lady visits you, upon her retiring, you offer her your arm, and conduct her to her carriage. If you are visiting at the same time with another lady, you should take leave at the same time, and hand her into her carriage. After a hall, a dinner, or a concert, you visit during the week. Pay the first visit to a friend just returned from a voyage. Annual visits are paid to persons with whom you have a cool acquaintance, They visit you in the autumn, you return a card |
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