The Laws of Etiquette by A Gentleman
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not the slightest right to expect that the other should ever
speak to you. If you wish to be introduced to a lady, you must always have her consent previously asked; this formality it is not necessary to observe in the case of gentlemen alone. Presents are the gauge of friendship. They also serve to increase it, and give it permanence. Among friends presents ought to be made of things of small value; or, if valuable, their worth should be derived from the style of the workmanship, or from some accidental circumstance, rather than from the inherent and solid richness. Especially never offer to a lady a gift of great cost: it is in the highest degree indelicate, and looks as if you were desirous of placing her under an obligation to you, and of buying her good will. The gifts made by ladies to gentlemen are of the most refined nature possible: they should be little articles not purchased, but deriving a priceless value as being the offspring of their gentle skill; a little picture from their pencil, or a trifle from their needle. To persons much your superiors, or gentlemen whom you do not know intimately, there is but one species of appropriate present--game. If you make a present, and it is praised by the receiver, you should not yourself commence undervaluing it. If one is |
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