Why Worry? by George Lincoln Walton
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work in the evening at the Agassiz Museum. When he leaves for the night he
puts out the gas and then stands and counts slowly up to a given number until his eyes are used to the darkness, in order that he may detect any spark of fire that may have started while he was at work. This is his invariable custom, but it sometimes happens that when he goes back home so strong a feeling of doubt comes over him lest he may that once have omitted to do this, that he is uncomfortable until he returns to the museum to make sure." Among the predisposing causes for nervous breakdown none is more potent than the inability of the obsessive to adapt himself to change of plan, and to reconcile himself to criticism, opposition, and the various annoyances incident to his occupation. In dealing with others the following suggestion of Marcus Aurelius may come in play: "When a man has done thee any wrong, immediately consider with what opinion about good or evil he has done wrong. For when thou hast seen this, thou wilt pity him, and neither wonder nor be angry." Again, in this connection the lines of Cowper are pertinent: "The modest, sensible and well-bred man Will not affront me, and no other can." Pope, also, who is said not always to have followed his own good counsel, contributes a verse which may serve a turn: "At ev'ry trifle scorn to take offense, That always shows great pride, or little sense." |
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