The Young Woman's Guide by William A. Alcott
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purpose, to which I object. It is not visiting itself, but the abuse of
visiting. Celestial spirits, for aught we know, are much employed in visiting--and shall not man be so? Are we to belong to their society hereafter, and yet not be their _associates?_ Are we to associate with them, and yet remain solitaries? Could such a thing be? Is not man, here and hereafter--as I have already insisted--a social being? And if so, shall not his social nature and social powers be early and successfully developed and cultivated? Let our visits but promote the purposes of benevolence, and nothing can, with propriety, be said against them. I would wage no war on this point, except with selfishness. CHAPTER XXIV. MANNERS. Miss Sedgwick on good manners. Her complaint. Just views of good manners. Good manners as the natural accompaniment of a good heart. The Bible the best book on manners. Illustrations of the subject. Miss Sedgwick, in her "Means and Ends," has treated the subject of Manners in a happier way than any other writer with whom I am acquainted. Perhaps her views are already familiar to most of my readers; but lest they should not be so, and on account of their excellency, I propose to give a brief abstract of some of them. She complains, in the first place, that manners are too often |
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