The Young Woman's Guide by William A. Alcott
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creatures.
"Manners, like every thing else in one's character and conduct, should be based on religion. Honor all men, says the apostle. This is the spring of good manners. It strikes at the very root of selfishness. It is the principle by which we render to all ranks and ages their due. A respect for your fellow beings, a reverence for them as God's creatures and our brethren, will inspire that delicate regard to their rights and feelings, of which good manners is the sign. "If you have truth--not the truth of policy, but religious truth--your manners will be sincere. They will have earnestness, simplicity and frankness--the best qualities of manners. They will be free from assumption, pretence, affectation, flattery and obsequiousness, which are all incompatible with sincerity. If you have a goodly sincerity, you will choose to appear no other nor better than you are--to dwell in a true light." I have often insisted that the Bible contains the only rules necessary in the study of politeness--or in other words, that those who are the real disciples of Christ, cannot fail to be truly polite. Nor have I any reason for recalling this opinion; from which that of Miss Sedgwick does not materially differ. Not that the same forms will be observed by every follower of Christ, in manifesting his politeness; all I insist on is, that every one will be truly polite. Let me illustrate my views in a very plain manner. Suppose a wandering female, clad in the meanest apparel, calls at a house, to inquire the way to the next inn, having just found the road |
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