truth, and have an obliging disposition, it is better to bear with a few
defects, than to discharge them; these are qualifications for the
foundation of a good servant; and some of the most valuable I have had,
were such as could hardly be put up with at first. By being patient, and
speaking to them in a kind manner, they become attached and fearful of
doing any thing to offend.

When they break any thing, or an accident occurs, accustom them to
inform you of it immediately. Few mistresses, of well regulated minds,
will be offended when openly told of accidents; but if they are left to
be found out, you always feel more disposed to blame and reprove them.
By speaking to them in a mild and forgiving manner, careless servants
will become more careful.

A considerate mistress may, without loss of dignity, make them feel that
she regards it as her duty to be their friend, and that she feels
herself under an obligation to advise them in difficulties and promote
their comfort.

We should reflect that theirs is a life of servitude, and if they
over-exert themselves, or are too much exposed in early life, it
will bring on disease that will shorten their days, or render old
age a burden.

Some young persons are too indolent to wait on themselves, and ring for
the servants on the most trifling occasions; when if they were
accustomed to perform these little offices, their health would be much
better, and we should not hear of so many complaints, the result of
want of exercise. All female servants should have time to attend to
their clothing; many have to work so hard through the day that their