"Happy those who can turn all the experience of others to their own
advantage!" said Lady Anne: "this would be a more valuable privilege than
the power of turning every thing that is touched to gold."

They walked on in silence for a few minutes; and then Miss Portman,
pursuing the train of her own thoughts, and unconscious that she had not
explained them to Lady Anne, abruptly exclaimed, "But if I should be
entangled, so as not to be able to retract!--and if it should not be in my
power to love him at last, he will think me a coquette, a jilt, perhaps:
he will have reason to complain of me, if I waste his time, and trifle
with his affections. Then is it not better that I should avoid, by a
decided refusal, all possibility of injury to Mr. Vincent, and of blame to
myself?"

"There is no danger of Mr. Vincent's misunderstanding or misrepresenting
you. The risk that he runs is by his voluntary choice; and I am sure that
if, after farther acquaintance with him, you find it impossible to return
his affection, he will not consider himself as ill-used by your refusal."

"But after a certain time--after the world suspects that two people are
engaged to each other, it is scarcely possible for the woman to recede:
when they come within a certain distance, they are pressed to unite, by
the irresistible force of external circumstances. A woman is too often
reduced to this dilemma: either she must marry a man she does not love, or
she must be blamed by the world--either she must sacrifice a portion of
her reputation, or the whole of her happiness."

"The world is indeed often too curious, and too rash in these affairs,"
said Lady Anne. "A young woman is not in this respect allowed sufficient