Your Child: Today and Tomorrow by Sidonie Matzner Gruenberg
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but only a _negative_ place. The proper punishment, administered in
the right spirit, may cure or correct a fault; _but punishment does not make children good_. If children are punished frequently, it may even make them _bad_. We can all remember some of the punishments of our own childhood. How unjust they seemed then, and do even now, after all these years to heal the wounds! How outraged we felt! Into how unloving a mood they put us! The history of punishment for criminals shows us three stages. With primitive peoples and in early times the first impulse is to "get even" or to "strike back." "An eye for an eye"--nothing less would do. Then comes a stage in which punishment is used to frighten people from wrong-doing and as a warning--a deterrent for others. Gradually, very, very slowly, as we become more civilized and develop moral insight--develop a love for humanity--we come to recognize that the only legitimate purpose of punishment in the treatment of offenders is to redeem their characters, to make them _positively_ better, not merely frighten them into a state of apparent right-doing--that is, a state of avoiding wrong-doing. It is said that each individual in his development lives over the experiences of the race. How each of us passes through the three attitudes toward punishment is very interestingly shown by a study that was made some years ago on 3000 school children, to find out their own ideas about punishment. Miss Margaret E. Schallenberger sent out the following story and query and had the answers tabulated: |
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