Your Child: Today and Tomorrow by Sidonie Matzner Gruenberg
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told that the people were rioting for want of bread, exclaimed,
"Why, let them eat cake instead!" Brought up in luxury, she could not realize what absolute want means. She had no imagination. The world has progressed, but we still have among us the same type of unfortunate persons who are unable to put themselves in the place of others. I recently heard of a woman who, on being told of a family so poor that they had had nothing but cold potatoes for supper the night before, replied: "They may be poor, but the mother must be a very bad housekeeper, anyway. For, even if they had nothing but potatoes to eat, she might at least have fried them." Like her royal prototype, this modern woman had not the imagination to realize that a family could be so poor as to be in want of fuel. But being able to put yourself in the place of another is of importance not only from the strictly moral point of view. You can easily see how it will affect one's everyday relations, how it will be of great help in avoiding misunderstandings of all kinds--as between mother and child, between mistress and maid, etc. If parents would only realize this importance of imagination, and not look upon it as a "vain thing," they would not merely _allow_ the child's imagination to take its own course; they would actually make efforts to cultivate and encourage it. In this way they would not only aid the child in becoming a better and more sympathetic man or woman, but would also add much to the happiness of the child. |
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