Poise: How to Attain It by D. Starke
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and then only in the most insecure way.
Drawbacks differing as to their causes, but equally unlucky as to their results, are born of the opposite fault--modesty. It is high time to destroy the leniency shown toward this defect that old-fashioned educators once decorated with the title of virtue. Time has forged ahead, taking with it in its rapid course all forms of progress, which, in its turn, has made giant strides. Ideas have changed materially. Modern life has to face emergencies formerly undreamed of, and those who still believe in the virtue of modesty are their own enemies, as well as those of the people whom they advise to cultivate it. The case of this man is similar to that of many others, whose meaning has been undergoing a gradual change due to the erroneous interpretation that has deliberately been placed upon it. Modesty is very frequently nothing more than an evidence of incompetence. It has rise in sentiments that the man who would be up to date must avoid at all hazards--distrust of self and hatred of exertion. One rarely finds it in the man who is active and who knows his own worth. To revenge itself, it flourishes among the lazy, who try to save their pride and to conceal their secret irritation at the successes of others by assuming an humble attitude and exclaiming: |
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