bride are toothpaste, milk of magnesia, screen doors, copies of
Service's poems, Cape Cod lighters, pictures of "Age of
Innocence" and back numbers of the "Atlantic Monthly."


INVITATIONS AND WEDDING PRESENTS

The proper time to send out invitations to a wedding is between
two and three weeks before the day set for the ceremony, although
the out-of-town invitations should be mailed in plenty of time to
allow the recipient to purchase and forward a suitable present.
As the gifts are received, a check mark should be placed after
the name of the donor, together with a short description of the
present and an estimate as to its probable cost. This list is to
be used later, at the wedding reception, in determining the
manner in which the bride is to greet the various guests. It has
been found helpful by many brides to devise some sort of memory
system whereby certain names immediately suggest certain
responses, thus:

"Mr. Snodgrass--copy of "Highways and Byways in Old France"--c.
$6.50--"how do you do, Mr. Snodgrass, have you met my mother?"

"Mr. Brackett--Solid silver candlesticks--$68.50"--"hello, Bob,
you old peach. How about a kiss?"

The real festivities of a wedding start about three days before
the ceremony, with the arrival of the "wedding party," in which
party the most responsible position is that of best man. Let us
suppose that you are to be the best man at the Roe-Doe nuptials.