L. Annaeus Seneca on Benefits by 4 BC-65 Lucius Annaeus Seneca
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And the following lines, the expression of virtuous pain--a high-
spirited man's misery,-- "What thou doest, do quickly;" and:-- "Nothing in the world Is worth this trouble; I had rather you Refused it to me now." When the mind begins through weariness to hate the promised benefit, or while it is wavering in expectation of it, how can it feel grateful for it? As the most refined cruelty is that which prolongs the torture, while to kill the victim at once is a kind of mercy, since the extremity of torture brings its own end with it-- the interval is the worst part of the execution--so the shorter time a benefit hangs in the balance, the more grateful it is to the receiver. It is possible to look forward with anxious disquietude even to good things, and, seeing that most benefits consist in a release from some form of misery, a man destroys the value of the benefit which he confers, if he has the power to relieve us, and yet allows us to suffer or to lack pleasure longer than we need. Kindness always eager to do good, and one who acts by love naturally acts at once; he who does us good, but does it tardily and with long delays, does not do so from the heart. Thus he loses two most important things: time, and the proof of his good will to us; for a lingering consent is but a form of denial. VI. The manner in which things are said or done, my Liberalis, |
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