The Laws of Etiquette by A Gentleman
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what ground of politeness or decency you are called upon to
yield your seat. _Etiquette,_ and the deference due to ladies have, of course, no operation in the case of such persons. Chivalry--(and the gentleman is the legitimate descendant of the knight of old)--was ever a devotion to rank rather than to sex. Don Quixotte, or Sir Piercy Shafestone would not willingly have given place to servant girls. And upon considerations of humanity and regard to weakness, the case is no stronger. Such people have nerves considerably more robust than you have, and are quite as capable of riding backwards, or the top, as yourself. The only reason for _politeness_ in the case is, that perhaps the other passengers are of the same standing with the women, and might eject you from the window if you refuse to give place. If _ladies_ enter--and a gentleman distinguishes them in an instant--the case is altered. The sooner you move the better is it for yourself, since the rest will in the end have to concede, and you will give yourself a reputation among the party and secure a better seat, by rising at once. The principle that guides you in society is politeness; that which guides you in a coach is good humour. You lay aside all attention to form, and all strife after effect, and take instead, kindness of disposition and a willingness to please. You pay a constant regard to the comfort of your. fellow- prisoners. You take care not to lean upon the shoulder of your neighbour when you sleep. You are attentive not to make the stage wait for you at the stopping-places. When the ladies get out, you offer them your arm, and you do the same |
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