The Laws of Etiquette by A Gentleman
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page 54 of 88 (61%)
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when the coachman is driving rapidly over a rough place. You
should make all the accommodations to others, which you can do consistently with your own convenience; for, after all, the individuals are each like little nations; and as, in the one case, the first duty is to your country, so in the other, the first duty is to yourself. Some surly creatures, upon entering a coach, wrap about their persons a great coat of cloth, and about their minds a mantle of silence, which are not thrown off during the whole journey. This is doing more harm to themselves than to others. You should make a point of conversing with an appearance of entire freedom, though with real reserve, with all those who are so disposed. One purpose and pleasure of travelling is to gain information, and to observe the various characters of persons. You will be asked by others about the road you passed over, and it will be awkward if you can give no account of it. Converse, therefore, with all. Relate amusing stories, chiefly of other countries, and even of other times, so as not to offend any one. If engaged in discussion--and a coach is almost the only place where discussion should _not_ be avoided--state facts and arguments rather than opinions. Never answer impudent questions-and never ask them. At the meals which occur during a journey, you see beautiful exemplification of the _dictum_ of Hobbes, "that war is the natural state of man." The entire scene is one of unintermitted war of every person with every other person, |
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